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Donna McGoff

Donna McGoff is a Certified Life Coach, retired English teacher and counselor with a Master's in Human Development, Counseling and Family Studies. She is the author of Learn To Flex Your Mental Muscles, the Power of Goal Setting. and inventor of board games for counselors to supplement their work with children. Once divorced, Donna found herself with no plan of action and was "stuck" and "in pain" for a long time. After trying many options with no success; and counseling being one of them, she developed her own plan--a five step results-driven process to help move her out of where she was and into embracing a new beginning creating a new life on her own terms. She has used this process with her clients and now offer it as an online course so that she can reach more women empowering them to go from transition to transformation.

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RECOVER ~ RECONNECT ~ REINVENT

Five Step Results-Driven Process To Rebuild Your New Life After Divorce

Learn How To Move From "Stuck" or  "In Pain" Out Of The Past So That You Create A New Life For Your Future.

Welcome Video To More Information

Why Will A Results-Driven Process Move You Out Of Feeling "Stuck" or "In Pain"?

  • You Will Learn The Five Phases On the Road Through Recovery After Divorce. You will have a framework that will help you to identify feelings and emotions that are holding you back from moving forward--along with helping to identify and pinpoint exactly where you may be “stuck” or “in pain” making it terribly challenging to move forward.


  • You Will Learn How To Develop A Comprehensive Goal Plan. With the right tools, you will no longer feel so out of control over yourself and your life. You will create action steps that will move you out of the vicious cycle and break the negative pattern– empowering you to look to the future with hopeful eyes.


  • You Will Learn To Reconnect With Who You Are Now And Who You Want To Become For The Future. Your life is now different, and you don’t know how to be in this new life. You will take steps to get reacquainted with self and revisit your strengths, values, and  passions to re-frame how you will create your new life for the future.
Have You Found The Right Tools/Programs Enabling You To Create Your New Life That You Envision For The Future?

The good news is that you have come through divorce and are now on the other side. The bad news is not knowing what to do next or not have a plan in place to rebuild your life.  

Trying different programs and strategies to pull out of this and move forward can be disheartening, when they don’t deliver what they promise.

They mean well but don't provide the results needed—a way to overcome these feelings and emotions:

  • Feeling like a stranger and disconnected from self along with the loneliness can feel paralyzing.

  • Feeling powerless and playing the victim sometimes leads to blaming and feeding the drama unable to break the vicious cycle.

  • It’s exhausting and sometimes feels better to just “stay stuck” or “wallow in the pain” because don’t have the energy or direction to crawl out of it.
Finding The Right Program Showing You How To Take Back  Control  And
Personal Power Will Inspire  You To Rebuild Your New Life On Your Own Terms. 


Hello There, I’m Donna McGoff.

I was over 50, divorced, and  struggled with being “stuck” and “in pain” and couldn’t figure how to move forward with my life.

I was waiting for something to happen or something to be put in my path that would release me from the mental bars I felt were all around me.

Nothing happened…

I tried different programs, read self-help books, joined support groups along with having support from family and friends.

I tried counseling. (I was a counselor before I became a coach. I have a M.S. degree in Human Development, Counseling, and Family Studies) but wasn’t getting timely results that I wanted and needed to pick myself up by the bootstraps and move on.

I was stuck in the past; and if I didn’t figure a way to move out of it, I would stay in the grip of a past that no longer served me.
                                                              
I wouldn’t be able to grow into the person that I was meant to be now. I wouldn't feel the freedom, power, and control to explore what my new purpose in life is or who I would become for the future.
                                                              
I would miss the adventures and journey that a forward-moving life creates—especially now that I have already lived half of my life.

I  decided to take 100% responsibility for my situation.
 
I Started To Ask Myself Some Tough Questions:

What do I need to do to become unstuck and out of the pain from the past?

How would I discover a way to pinpoint exactly where that was so I could begin to do the work to overcome the obstacles and challenges?

How could I overcome the fear and loneliness of moving toward the future?

How could I create well-being of mind, body, and spirit to develop the inner power and strength to push through obstacles and limiting beliefs?

How could I use the past to help ensure I’d make new decisions for the future coming from a higher self?

My roles and identity had changed and had to ask, “Who is the person I am now?”

How do I reconnect with self and re-frame strengths, values and passions to discover who I want to become and where I want to go in the future?

I Created My Own Plan.

I wrote a plan of how I would do this—step by step which ended up becoming a five-step process. Each step would be results-driven with specific goals--one building on the next.

I worked through it for myself taking me from the transition of being “stuck” to the transformation of being empowered to rebuild my new life on my own terms.

I decided to narrow my focus and niche to divorced women 40 years of age and over. They face many challenges not experienced by their younger counterparts.

I started using it in my coaching practice and had a lot of success in helping other women get results they were looking for and couldn’t find anywhere else. 
Have Questions? Want To Chat?

I Came To Some Interesting Conclusions:

  • There’s a big difference between taking a program that promises to deliver what you want versus going through one that is proven to work and deliver the results you are looking for.

  • Most programs don’t go step by step with a results-driven process in place that generates measurable outcomes so that you see the progress each step of the way.

  • Seeing results through each step of the process makes for wanting to make the commitment to stay the course and complete it.
It’s  Results-Driven Identifying What's Needed Most 
To Achieve Success. 
The core or heart is zeroing in where presently feel “stuck” or “in pain” 
with less focus on the past.
Pinpointing where to begin creating targeted action plans to overcome challenges, obstacles, or limiting beliefs
is key to moving forward.


It's Focused On Divorced Women 40 And Over.
Takes into consideration the specific challenges, issues and concerns faced after going through divorce by that particular age group-- not experienced by their younger counterparts. 

It's A Step By Step Course of Action. 
One step builds on the one before it
which helps to empower, motivate, and create momentum.  
Matches specific power tools/ assessments, case studies, examples, etc. that help support achieving results 
much more easily and quickly.  

It's Exciting To Reconnect With Self.
It’s getting reacquainted with self after disconnecting with a part of the past. It is empowering to reinvent yourself by re-framing strengths, values, and passions--weaving them together to decide what the vision is for who you want to become for the future.

  • A course that offers a results-driven process that empowers you to move from being “stuck” or “in pain” to overcoming obstacles and limiting beliefs is the solution you have been looking for. 


  • Feeling empowered to do that is where it all starts. 


  • It is the “Key” that unlocks the power to rebuilding your new life on your own terms. 
Taking A Course That Helps You Move From Transition After Divorce To Your
Transformation Is The Right Choice If You Are Experiencing These  Symptoms:

"Stuck" or "In Pain"
You are still living in or reliving the past.
You Don't know how to break out or push
through this vicious cycle.
It has become the norm way of life
weighing you down.


Tired -- Burned Out
You just don't have the energy and time
to tend to your personal well-being.
You feel too stressed out to deal with
the necessary lifestyle changes you
now face.


Feel Like A Victim
You feel unable to stop blaming,
shaming, and feeding into the drama
of the situation.
Developed a pattern of talking about
the past over and over again.
Lost Authentic Self
You feel like a stranger to yourself.
Disconnected from who you are
now and who you want to become
for the future. You don't know what
your purpose is now and for your
future.


Introducing
Recover ~ Reconnect ~ Reinvent
The Ultimate Results-Driven Process Rebuilding Your New Life After Divorce

Your Virtual Online Course Includes:

The virtual online course is offered in five learning modules.  Each module, released on Monday over five weeks, includes video, downloadable power tools and assessments, personal reflection exercises, and action plans to help you reach your transformation and your goals for the future.

You will be experiencing online learning and coaching as you move from the transition after divorce to your transformation embracing the future.


                                                                               

Module One:  You will learn the cycle of emotional recovery (Road Through Recovery) so that you understand feelings and emotions you experience as they apply to where you are now in divorce recovery.

By the end of this module, you will identify and pinpoint, exactly where you are “stuck” or “in pain” so that you have what is needed to devise a goal plan and action steps to overcome obstacles/challenges that are holding you back from moving forward.



You Will Discover:
 
  • The five phases on the Road Through Recovery so that you understand that there is a process and a cycle to healing from divorce.
  • Knowing this process will help you to get more in touch with your feelings and emotions so that you are able to pinpoint exactly where you may be “stuck” or “in pain”.
  • Case study examples of each of the phases so that you can see how each divorced woman overcame the challenges.
  • Exactly where you are on the Road Through Recovery by using the scale and chart assessment so that you have a starting point where to begin.
Power Tools and Reflection Activities Included:

  • How Are You Dealing With the Feelings?
  • Video – The Road Through Recovery
  • Personal Reflection Questionnaire 
  • Video – Showcase Case Studies For Each Phase
  • Road Through Recovery Rating Scale
  • Road Through Recovery Chart
  • Pinpoint the Pain Point Assessment


Module Two:  You will learn step-by-step how to create a comprehensive goal plan so that you have a road map with action steps designed to move you out of the past and beyond the Road Through Recovery.

By the end of this module, you will have completed the action steps in the goal plan so that you have overcome obstacles, challenges, and limiting beliefs that have held you back from moving forward. Completing the Reality Assessment Tool will verify that you are ready to move on to the next part of the process.


You Will Discover:


  • The skill of goal setting so that you can use it as a way to systematically plan how to achieve your goals for the future.  
  • The components of a S.M.A.R.T. goal so that you have the foundation to write a powerful goal statement.
  • A goal plan created step by step so that you can see how following and taking immediate action gets amazing, positive results.
  • How to be prepared for roadblocks, and how a positive mindset will help you keep your “eye on the prize”.
  • Why and how to chunk down action steps into manageable parts so you will stay motivated to keep on going when the going gets tough.
Power Tools and Reflection Activities Included:
 
  • Video – The “Key” to the Road Through Recovery
  • Vision For the Future 
  • Coaching Questions For Personal Reflection
  • Video – Step By Step Process of Goal Setting
  • Goal Statement Evaluation *
  • Goal Plan Template *
  • Concept Map for Breakdown of Action Steps *
  • Reality Assessment Tool  


Module Three:  You will apply the four pillars of well-being so that you have a good foundation to connecting to who you are now after moving through the divorce transition.
You will construct a personal life timeline so that you can see life lessons, patterns, themes and opportunities from the past that will empower you to make better decisions for the future. 


At the end of this module, you will know who you are now so that you have the courage to step into the unknown, You will push past boundaries and limiting beliefs because this is how you learn to become who you want to be in the future.


You Will Discover:
 
  • How the Four Pillars of Well-Being apply to your life so that you have powerful control in choosing the right decisions for your new future.
  • How to design a Personal Life Timeline that is rich in meaning so that you have a bird’s eye view of how your past was shaped.
  • How looking briefly at the past can change your mindset/perspective for the future so that you become more self-aware and promote emotional healing from the past.
Power Tools and Reflection Activities Included:     
       
  • Video – Four Pillars of Well-Being 
  • Reconnecting With Self Personal Assessment
  • Reconnecting With Self Wheel and Rating Scale
  • Well-Being Action Steps Cheat Sheet
  • Video – Personal Life Timeline
  • Instructions for Creating A Personal Life Timeline
  • Template For Creating A Personal Life Timeline
  • Learning From the Past—Personal Reflection

Module Four:  You will learn to re-frame, reexamine and rework strengths values and passions to discover who you want to become for the future.  

At the end of this module, you will take your strengths, values and passions and complete the Venn diagram exercise to discover your "sweet spot" so that you can take that information and weave it into a goal for the new life that you are rebuilding for the future.





Strengths and Weaknesses
Values
Passions

You Will Discover:

  • Why it is important to reconnect with strengths and weaknesses so that you can identify gaps, understand their value, and how the benefit of knowing them gives personal power.
  • The importance of knowing your core values so that they empower you to choose wisely when faced with making major decisions, stay accountable and on track, and guide through emotional upheavals with a strong, steady hand.
  • Why living your passions is the driver that will enable you to embrace a new beginning and live your best life.
  • Using a Venn Diagram, you will find your “sweet spot” integrating all three areas. It will pinpoint a direction to go in creating a goal for your new future
Power Tools and Reflection Activities Included: 
  • Video – What Are Your Strengths and Weaknesses? 
  • Personal Assessment of Strengths and Weaknesses
  • Personal Strength Inventory and Chart
  • Reinventing Strengths and Weaknesses Evaluation
  • Video – What Are Your Core Values?
  • Personal Values Discovery Worksheet and Assessment
  • Video – What Are Your Passions?
  • Passion Exploration Questions
  • The Four W’s of Passion Screening
  • Venn Diagram of “Sweet Spot”


Module Five:   You will learn how much harmony and balance you have among the eight different areas of life so that you can decide which area would make the most positive impact on your life going forward.

By the end of this module, you will know an area(s) of life you need to make a plan for and take positive action so that you will be empowered to embrace a new beginning rebuilding a new life on your own terms.


            

By the end of this module, you will know an area(s) of life you need to make a plan for and take positive action so that you will be empowered to embrace a new beginning rebuilding a new life on your own terms.

You Will Discover:
 
  • Which area of life if changed will create a powerful, positive shift for the future.
  • What is wanted and needed to create your new life, and why you don’t have it.
  • What limiting beliefs, obstacles, or issues answer the question, Why Don’t I Have What I Want?
Power Tools and Reflection Activities Included:

  • Wheel of Life Exercise
  • Wheel of Life Rating Scale
  • What I Want
  • Why Don’t I Have It? 
  • Goal Statement Evaluation
  • Goal Plan Template
  • Blank Concept Map

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Do you want a results-driven process that empowers you to embrace a new beginning rebuilding your new life and creating it on your own terms?

1
You break free from 
the vicious cycle of
 not having control 
of your life by learning
 exactly what is holding
 you back and then take 
action to overcome it.


2
Having the right tools 
that you need will help
 you to overcome the
 obstacles and challenges 
so that you make new, 
purposeful decisions 
that have your best 
interest at heart.

3
You have a step by step
 plan to take you from
the transition after divorce
 to the personal transformation
so that you can make a reality
the vision you have for your future.

RECOVER ~ RECONNECT ~ REINVENT

Your Ultimate Results-Driven Process Rebuilding Your New Life After Divorce


BONUSES


BONUS #1  One Hour Coaching Session To Help In An Area Where You May Need Some Extra Guidance and Support.


BONUS #2   You Will Receive A $50.00 Scholarship Tuition Discount If One Of First 25 To  Register.


BONUS #3   You will receive my e-book, Learn To Flex Your Mental Muscles.

Discover the paradigm or limiting belief that may be holding you back from  realizing your dreams.
Learn, in simple  terms, how the mind works, and how to use your mind to achieve the goals you desire.
Testimonials

”After going through my divorce, I found myself pulled in many directions being caught up in the complex process. As a result, I was neglecting my physical health. With Donna’s help, I was able to start rebuilding my life gaining a new, fresh perspective enabling me to better manage stress, anxiety, and overwhelm. 
~Claire, Nurse Practitioner, Castle Rock, Colorado
(name changed)
 
“I really was stuck. I was just going through life doing the same old boring things—with no purpose for the future. Also, my old lifestyle was holding me back but was afraid to do anything about it. With Donna’s guidance and help, I worked through her process.” 
~Jolene, Port St. Lucie, Florida 
(name changed)

“Donna is a very good coach! She is detailed oriented and really cares about her clients.”
~Cari, Stuart, Flori
 
 
“My life was pretty good except in the romance area. Now that my divorce was over, I wasn’t sure what the next step was.  Thank you for showing me the way, Donna”.  
~Larisa, Research Scientist, New York
(name changed)

My Guarantee

I am in the business of creating a course that offers a results-driven process that creates results. If for any reason you are not happy with the content the impact it will have on your life going forward, I will refund your tuition 100% within the first seven days. No hoop to go through.  Just send an email.

Join Me In The Course!

Five Step Results-Driven Process To Rebuilding Your New Life!

$597.00

$547.00 -- One Time Payment ($50.00 Tuition Scholarship)

Have A Question?  Send an email:  donna@livingabovetheordinary.com

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Cheers,


Donna McGoff

Frequently Asked Questions

If the price is out of my budget at this time but know that it would really help me and makes perfect sense, is there a payment plan that I can arrange?
Yes, please send an email and we can discuss a payment plan.

How will I receive my $50 scholarship if I am one of the first 25 to sign up?
It will automatically be deducted from the total amount of tuition.

When can I use my hour coaching session?
I suggest that you wait to use it until you feel that you really need some help and guidance. Oftentimes, it is in Module Two where lots of students will take advantage of that. 
 
 What if I need more than one week to finish a module?
Modules are released every seven days. You may need more than a week to finish a module. The next one will just be there waiting for you until you are ready to begin working on it. 
 
What if I have a question about one of the modules? How can I get the answer?
Just send an email to donna@livingabovetheordinary.com and I will answer your question as soon as possible. 
 
What if I want to work more closely with you—meaning I want more coaching sessions with you as I go through the modules?
Contact me and I will tell you about my pricing and package offer to work more closely with me. 
Coaching and Course -- $1597 (3 months every other week)
One-on-one Coaching Program $4799 (3 months weekly)



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